Car cleaned, lessons learned!

Mom and Dad had come for steak dinner one night and Mom was saying that she would love to get her car cleaned inside and out. This would be a feat as Dad has recently had two knee replacements and Judy's mom is sick and Judy is her caregiver and support.

As you can imagine and have probably experienced these types of situations, you are so busy taking care of every one's daily needs, that other "things" fall to the wayside, due to time constraints, energy and a whole host of other responsibilities.

So, I took it up on myself to call the resurrecter of cars, Donnie Stevens in Oxford. I explained to Donnie that I would prepay him for cleaning Mom and Dad's car. Well, he did in Donnie style-making her car look brand new. He is amazing, kind, generous and helpful and does an incredible job in restoring any vehicle to its former glory. Too bad, he couldn't redo my rusty frame, but I have a qualified team to give me a new overhaul, lungs! And boy, will I be running fine after that.

Well, no sooner than her car was finished, than the doorbell rang and there was a beautiful vase filled with lovely flowers. A thank you gift from Mom and Dad saying thank you, but I shouldn't have.

Well, I should have because for many years, Judy and Karl took me camping, fishing, roller skating, to family outings and so much more. More importantly, they have treated me just like a daughter. I tell them all the time how fortunate that I was to have them in my life. Their love and support of each other has always inspired me to seek that type of love. I am still hoping that type of love is out there somewhere. Perhaps, some day I may have luck on my side and I will find that unconditional love that carries you through the good times and bad. It all comes down to RESPECT for one another. It is a joy to be around Mom and Dad as they exude this constantly. The care and respect that they have for each other is a blessing to all of us, who surround them.

Yes, Mom and Dad, I know I didn't have to "gift" you with a new looking car, but you did so much for me over the years, that this small gift to you is so minor, to what I have received from you. You have given me so many happy times, memories filled with laughter and the ability to smile, despite the rain. You have always found the rainbow and have taught me to look for the rainbow with all its beautiful, radiant colors.

My wish for you is continued good health, so that you may continue to van camp and enjoy nature as you always have. Know that my heart is filled with love for you.

May you remember that doing little things for loved ones brings joy and sunshine to them, no matter the weather.